Going To School

Well, you are off to school part time starting in July.  I found a good spot for you to make some friends and do fun activities, while I go to work. I'll drop you off in the morning, and your pops will pick you up! When we visited the school you were excited about all the stuff for little people. One of the recent classroom themes was "outside in" and they worked with dirt, leaves, and stuff from nature in their classroom when they couldn't be outside. You will be a 2-3 year old classroom where you don't have to be potty trained. You are almost there. Most accidents happen when you are busy playing. I've been trying some new rewards lately because the sticker chart is full. Always up for suggestions!


I can't wait to hear your stories and learn the names of your friends. I mentioned school to you today and you said, "School bus?" Maybe not at this school, but some day. 


You are becoming more of a jokester. You think you're so funny. I think you're funny too. Today you had me laughing  while I was trying to say, "That's not funny. Not nice either." But I just couldn't quit laughing, and you knew you had me. 


Today I noticed the change from toddler to boy (that your dr. said i would see). We sat on the back deck and ate for an hour and watched birds. I really enjoyed it. Got up to go water the lawn (because you take a long time at lunch) and you asked me to "sit pease". So I did, and we laughed and watched the birds in the big beautiful trees. 

Home When I'm With You

Michael Ababayeh Daddy Jones, I made this video for you with the song titled Home by Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeroes. I've been noticing that absence does make the heart grow fonder, as I am thinking of you a lot. Loving the lyrics to this song. I'm home when I'm with you. The video just plays half the song, but you can listen to the whole thing here. Enjoy. Can't wait to have you home.

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Meditate + Motherhood

On the glorious splendor of Your majesty And on Your wonderful works, I will meditate.

Psalm 145:5

Stillness before God, meditation, listening to the wind, blocking out distractions, practice of meditation and quiet before God. Soul restored. Reminded to find a quite place before God more often.

This mom finds the quiet place out of reach lately. Jumped right in and didn't notice until a few weeks ago that my quiet place had become less quiet. This evening I was reminded that I must find the quiet place again. The place where I sit in silence, where I read or write. Where I hear God, and try not to say too much.

Today was opposite of quiet because you knew mommy was on a mission to get through some piles of paperwork, which required phone calls and focus away from you. So you did everything to try to get my focus back. And it rained all day, so we did not escape to the great outdoors.

Read and talked about your "adoption" story with you today. We often talk about it, so it will never come as a surprise to you. A lady recently asked how we plan to integrate your past with your future. I plan to talk more about Ethiopia, with hopes that you will remember segments of your past to share with us.

Few photos from our journey from your homeland, Sodo, Ethiopia.

We scored the Jackpot...

Tegegne -
So, as it is Mother's Day today, it is only fitting to let you know that your mom is the most courageous, beautiful and elegant in the entire world.  She loves you with a heart that I have never seen and a patience that at times seems unimaginable.  She goes to sleep loving you and waking with anticipation to be with you.  You are her, "little guy", her joy.

She has been taking care of me for years.  She folds my socks, cleans my dinner plate and hugs me with purpose.  She looks up to me and follows me.  She is the glue that keeps us together, and you'll soon come to see this.  She calms me down, and gets me going.  She is a mom, a friend, and wife and a co-pilot.

You'll soon come to find out, if not already, that she is one of the best reasons to wake up in the morning...

Family Photo

Photo by gh.

Have a Happy Weekend with Family!

Gunyea, are you getting geared up to wish me a happy mother's day tomorrow? Do you have a song and dance prepared for the occasion?

Message from France

Got to chat with Michael this afternoon, and he sent the photos above! He is enjoying his visit with the folks in Bayonne. His host family took him to a dinner with their friends, and they ate for four hours. Visited, ate cheese, drank red wine, and soaked up the evening. He says Bayonne is quite lovely. Normally 75-90 degrees, and no humidity. He's 30 minutes from the ocean and two hours from mountains with ski slopes. Tomorrow he visits Spain with the principal and other teachers. A French hospital welcomed Michael and a student for 5.5 hours today, as a student fell 3 feet from a tree and broke his arm. Not the best way to spend the day, but the fellow got a cast and is okay.

You, Gunyea climbed on my lap today and pointed to the computer and asked if we could talk to Ababayeh. We looked at photos of him instead. You were kissing the screen. Then you insisted that I kiss the screen. Too bad your dad didn't jump through the screen and kiss back.

(Here at Big Sky you are giving Grandpa Ben a workout with the game of tag. You probably ran a half mile tagging Grandpa and chasing Jack. Your little legs can move pretty fast. We spent the day visiting Grandma Jody and playing at Gramma Debby's store. G Debby made you a bed at her store so you could nap there while I sorted through our storage.)

Bayonne

In honor of your dear 'ol dad, I thought I'd post photos of Bayonne since I haven't received any from him. We did skype twice yesterday, which was quite nice. He is enjoying his host family. While skyping he introduced us to the children in his host family. They were sitting on his lap and I think you were confused. Your bottom lip came out and you almost cried, so he explained that they were only friends, and then they went back to their parents. 
He and the host dad took a jog along the beach last night. He plans to eat chocolate croissants like they are going out of style, and enjoy the French culture of Bayonne. Two days ago at lunch out of the blue you said, "Ababayeh e airplane to Fance."

Photo credit.


In the mean time we are loving time at Big Sky with the Gma's and Pa's. Here at Big Sky we run through fields of green grass, eat hearty meals, and take lots of rides in the "mule." Looking forward to seeing Uncle Eric and Aunt Erica this weekend!

Our Day

photo.

our day consisted of the following:

wake up. eight am. breakfast of leftover blueberry and chocolate chip pancakes. mom had carnation inst. breakfast so gunyea could eat the pancakes. (still out of cereal). visit jessie at jcrew. say bye bye jessie. then to standard style boutique. a $20 rack. who knew? mom bought cardigan off $20 rack. gunyea wants to leave store to drive car and looks for the keys. store lady distracts gunyea and plays with him. leave store. gunyea "drives" the car with mom in passenger seat. (pretends to drive, plays with radio, luckily does not know how to honk the horn). cell phone rings with odd looking number. it's ababayeh on the phone! (host fam has a way he can call for free!)

back home. eat lunch. gunyea naps. katie comes over and visits with mom. then olive comes with her mom in pink car. gunyea gets in red car and we go on a "date" to the park. then a walk. then to olives house. then home with a detour to bob and momo's across the street. then home for good. gunyea's bath. pizza delivered. yum. brush teeth. read. pray. eight pm. or a little after. night night ababayeh. we miss you.

Hello May!

Welcome month of May! How are you?

Well Gunyea, you and I both know how the first half of our month will go. We will be missing Ababayeh like crazy. Today we sent him off to France with the 6th graders from his school. They will spend two weeks in Bayonne, France. I cried a little at the airport, but tried to hide it. Other moms were crying because they were sending their kiddos across the ocean for the first time. I was crying because we are genuinely going to miss your dad! Hopefully he'll check in often, won't you Ababayeh?

Other fun things in May:

-Photoshoot with friend Grant for M Magazine who wants to do a story about us for their June/July issue! Stay tuned.

-Going to Big Sky for 5 days to visit Gma and Pa Iman.

-Celebrating Mothers Day as a mother. Your dad left a present that I must wait to open!

-Doing an Adoption Institute at church and sharing our journey at one meeting.

-Celebrating Uncle Eric's birthday!

-Memorial Day Weekend Family Reunion!

-A family photoshoot with Erika at the end of the month!

Photoshoot with Grant.

How are you?

"Mommmmyyyyyeeehhhh, get this off my nose and stop taking my picture! (You asked me to put this clown nose on your nose, btw. (Thank you Philvis. Philvis used to only bring gourmet dog treats for Owen, but now he shows up with toys for you!))

"Ababayehhhh, ababayehhhh....gloves."

You recently enjoy sticking your head through the open screen door and asking neighbors, or anyone walking by, "Hello. How are you?" or just "How are you?" Then if they hear you they respond asking you and you say "I'm fine." If they don't hear you, you ask louder. It's quite cute. You also ask Ababayeh and I at random how we are doing. It's Saturday afternoon, and you have asked Ababayeh how he is doing about 8 times throughout the day. Thanks for asking, Gunyea.

We've had more visits with Olive and her mom. We went to their house last, and Mommy was very excited about the super cool renovations they've done. When Ababayeh came home I had big ideas of adding onto our kitchen!

Your legs are looking longer each day. You are growing, but have probably not jumped to the top of the American 2 yr old size chart. A random man at the art fair asked your age and then told your dad you looked "dinky." Luckily Ababayeh held his tongue, but he did not appreciate what that man had to say about your size.

I think your "How are you's?" are genuine, but it will be fun to some day converse about how things are going. And I look forward to overhearing your conversations with friends like Olive.